Aside from online dating (doesn't work for me), school (outta school), work (fortune 500 co with lotsa women, unfortunately they are all fat 40 year old married women), where can you meet girls. It seems like the bar is the only place I can think of.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Where to meet girls?
- Thread starter rrrrr
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
djSlvt
Banned
Gas stations mahn!
I dont know about you or anyone else, but as I begone improving my physique and adopted and improved my alpha male body language and the way I handle myself in life, women actually are looking for me. Let me explain. When I step outside there will be a hottie or two, no doubt. When I step on the balcony to drink some green tea and have a look at my stang, there is a hottie somewhere noticing me.
I too used to think about meeting women as an act of going somewhere to meet them. But it turns out they are everywhere and they are looking for you, not the other way around.
Im no major expert, but Im assuming if you have such a question, you must do more work on yourself.
I dont know about you or anyone else, but as I begone improving my physique and adopted and improved my alpha male body language and the way I handle myself in life, women actually are looking for me. Let me explain. When I step outside there will be a hottie or two, no doubt. When I step on the balcony to drink some green tea and have a look at my stang, there is a hottie somewhere noticing me.
I too used to think about meeting women as an act of going somewhere to meet them. But it turns out they are everywhere and they are looking for you, not the other way around.
Im no major expert, but Im assuming if you have such a question, you must do more work on yourself.
sparky0000
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That is the single greatest line ever written on here. Props to this dude. Green tea, his balcony, and looking at his "stang". Now that is DJish!! His "stang"djSlvt said:
I like Earl Grey tea. Maybe even peppermint tea. Should I switch over to green tea?isoman2kx
Don Juan
try a dance/cooking class man.
the only real catch there is ya gotta actually pretend to give a damn about em
chicks smell the whole "not into it, but let me talk to the girls all class long" from a mile away.
the only real catch there is ya gotta actually pretend to give a damn about em
chicks smell the whole "not into it, but let me talk to the girls all class long" from a mile away.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Yep, you pretty much nailed it. Bars and clubs.rrrrr said:
Sure, they need to run errands like everyone else, but consider this:
At the bank, grocery store, whatever no one hangs around these places. It's get in, and get out 10 minutes later. OK, maybe an hour at the grocery store, or half-an-hour at the mall, but no one actually hangs around these places. It's get in, and get out. Drive-through lanes make it worse. I refuse to use drive-through lanes since it's so anti-social, but it's still very in and out.
Concepts such as "Bridge Club on Thursday Night," or "Poker on Sundays" seem to have all but vanished. I blame TV for this.
Visions007
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Well I'm still a relatively new DJ in training but certainly one thing that is in no short supply is opportunities to meet women. I see at least one woman I would find attractive and like to approach every day. I used to let opportunities slide by all the time until I decided to change it. You don't go to the bank or the gas station or the grocery store just for women but if you see one that is hot go talk to her wherever it is. The fact that women don't "hang out" at these places does not mean they don't ever go there and you have certainly seen them there. It is just further eveidence that you can't hesitate you just have to do it because she may be gone in 5 min and you will never see her again.