Aside from online dating (doesn't work for me), school (outta school), work (fortune 500 co with lotsa women, unfortunately they are all fat 40 year old married women), where can you meet girls. It seems like the bar is the only place I can think of.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Where to meet girls?
- Thread starter rrrrr
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
djSlvt
Banned
Gas stations mahn!
I dont know about you or anyone else, but as I begone improving my physique and adopted and improved my alpha male body language and the way I handle myself in life, women actually are looking for me. Let me explain. When I step outside there will be a hottie or two, no doubt. When I step on the balcony to drink some green tea and have a look at my stang, there is a hottie somewhere noticing me.
I too used to think about meeting women as an act of going somewhere to meet them. But it turns out they are everywhere and they are looking for you, not the other way around.
Im no major expert, but Im assuming if you have such a question, you must do more work on yourself.
I dont know about you or anyone else, but as I begone improving my physique and adopted and improved my alpha male body language and the way I handle myself in life, women actually are looking for me. Let me explain. When I step outside there will be a hottie or two, no doubt. When I step on the balcony to drink some green tea and have a look at my stang, there is a hottie somewhere noticing me.
I too used to think about meeting women as an act of going somewhere to meet them. But it turns out they are everywhere and they are looking for you, not the other way around.
Im no major expert, but Im assuming if you have such a question, you must do more work on yourself.
sparky0000
Banned
- Joined
- Apr 27, 2006
- Messages
- 669
- Reaction score
- 4
That is the single greatest line ever written on here. Props to this dude. Green tea, his balcony, and looking at his "stang". Now that is DJish!! His "stang"djSlvt said:
I like Earl Grey tea. Maybe even peppermint tea. Should I switch over to green tea?isoman2kx
Don Juan
try a dance/cooking class man.
the only real catch there is ya gotta actually pretend to give a damn about em
chicks smell the whole "not into it, but let me talk to the girls all class long" from a mile away.
the only real catch there is ya gotta actually pretend to give a damn about em
chicks smell the whole "not into it, but let me talk to the girls all class long" from a mile away.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Yep, you pretty much nailed it. Bars and clubs.rrrrr said:
Sure, they need to run errands like everyone else, but consider this:
At the bank, grocery store, whatever no one hangs around these places. It's get in, and get out 10 minutes later. OK, maybe an hour at the grocery store, or half-an-hour at the mall, but no one actually hangs around these places. It's get in, and get out. Drive-through lanes make it worse. I refuse to use drive-through lanes since it's so anti-social, but it's still very in and out.
Concepts such as "Bridge Club on Thursday Night," or "Poker on Sundays" seem to have all but vanished. I blame TV for this.
Visions007
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 18, 2007
- Messages
- 35
- Reaction score
- 0
Well I'm still a relatively new DJ in training but certainly one thing that is in no short supply is opportunities to meet women. I see at least one woman I would find attractive and like to approach every day. I used to let opportunities slide by all the time until I decided to change it. You don't go to the bank or the gas station or the grocery store just for women but if you see one that is hot go talk to her wherever it is. The fact that women don't "hang out" at these places does not mean they don't ever go there and you have certainly seen them there. It is just further eveidence that you can't hesitate you just have to do it because she may be gone in 5 min and you will never see her again.