Where to go from here

[ACsays10%]

I need some help, I'm in a odd situation and am hoping somebody can help me. A month ago I added some girl I've never met before on Facebook. She deleted my request but then re added me and messaged me " sorry for deleting your request ". Long story short we messaged each other and I wanted to meet up w her to discuss "business". I'm in a relationship w somebody else and it says it on my pf. This girl liked a couple of my pics and I got the feeling she was interested. I got her # and called her, she didn't answer and never called me back. Ik she's a busy girl, but I'm interested in her being more than a friend. We texted very briefly but I've been trying to get her to meet up w me. She called me out and said "feel like u are more interested in me than business" I said I do want to talk business but naturally we will get to know each other regardless of the topic. No response.....so I texted her today " look Ik your attractive but we need to meet up and talk business will fri or sat work better? No response.....I'm not willing to give up on her but idk what to do next. I'm in a long distance w another girl but am getting tired of dating her and really am interested in this other girl. Damn this was long....just need some fresh opinions. I just want to get a face to face w her....should I admit that I'm interested in her more than business?

 

[DonJuanit0]

First of all, would you like if a woman who was in a LTR told you the things you say to her now? That LTR in your fb is a mood killer! Even if she doesn't care, or haven't seen it, you have asked her some times and you got no answer! Why do you believe if you insist she will say yes? Do you think she doesn't understand you're interested in her?

She knows everything you are willing to say to her! Just don't. There is no reason and it won't get you your date! Try backing up a little bit and wait for her move! You made your offer more than once so the ball is on her field now!

 

[ACsays10%]

You are right, i busted her balls in a text. I said I understood she's a busy girl and maybe a bit shy.....she didn't like that at all ha. Got three responses in a row " why should I be shy" I wouldn't be able to make it in sales if I was shy", etc. she's a dominant girl, who is smart and doesn't fall for bull****. She's fine, she gets hit on left and right Ik it. Just thought maybe being upfront and telling her I'm interested in more than business w her would maybe benefit me ? Or it'd make me look like a piece of **** because I'm in a LTR w another woman....I am a go getter so it's hard for me to get denied and be ok w it when she showed interest first

 

[ACsays10%]

I was shaving this morning and thought about this whole situation.....I was being a little *****. over some smoke show I've never met before. My ego was more bruised than anything, if this girl doesn't text me back, I need to drop it....anybody else out there reading this needs to do the same if you are In a similar scenario.

 

[Dgwizdal]

Waste of time.

Awesome username though.

 

[TheGambino]

I need some help, I'm in a odd situation and am hoping somebody can help me. A month ago I added some girl I've never met before on Facebook. She deleted my request but then re added me and messaged me " sorry for deleting your request ". Long story short we messaged each other and I wanted to meet up w her to discuss "business". I'm in a relationship w somebody else and it says it on my pf. This girl liked a couple of my pics and I got the feeling she was interested. I got her # and called her, she didn't answer and never called me back. Ik she's a busy girl, but I'm interested in her being more than a friend. We texted very briefly but I've been trying to get her to meet up w me. She called me out and said "feel like u are more interested in me than business" I said I do want to talk business but naturally we will get to know each other regardless of the topic. No response.....so I texted her today " look Ik your attractive but we need to meet up and talk business will fri or sat work better? No response.....I'm not willing to give up on her but idk what to do next. I'm in a long distance w another girl but am getting tired of dating her and really am interested in this other girl. Damn this was long....just need some fresh opinions. I just want to get a face to face w her....should I admit that I'm interested in her more than business?

Nah brah this is leading nowhere.
You should back off from her asap. She's not interested and just playing mind games with you. If she was interested she wouldn't given you a hard time to meet up. Believe me interested girls won't confuse you and will meet up with you. They don't flake and suggest to meet up themselves.

If you chase her more she will only get more distant from you, youre already needy and desperate coz you text her after she ignored you. When a girl goes silent on you, you bail, period. She's not interested, move on to the next girl, chasing here won't do you any good, for business or not.

Accept it and move on. btw whats AC?

 

[GotED?]

I was shaving this morning and thought about this whole situation.....I was being a little *****. over some smoke show I've never met before. My ego was more bruised than anything, if this girl doesn't text me back, I need to drop it....anybody else out there reading this needs to do the same if you are In a similar scenario.

I hope you were shaving your balls because you don't have much left after giving your frame away to her 100%.

Now it is an AFC road to hell.

Exodus

 

[ACsays10%]

I appreciate the feedback, this girl is a bad ***** tho and it's hard to put it behind me.why did she give me her #? She had to have known I had a gf....well I'm in so fla, ***** is a revolving door here. I'm more perplexed over the situation than anything, she showed the interest before me....all I was trying was to secure a business meeting. I knew if we could meet up I was going to have a shot...... ACsays 10 percent is from home alone lol.

 

[Ace9]

Don't become a hopeful pen pal.
You've already showed your hand.
Keep it pushing g.

 

[ACsays10%]

She happened to call a few hours ago. We are meeting later this week to talk business. If everything goes as planned, I'm going to ask her to dinner and expose my true intentions with this situation. No excuses now fellas!

 

[marmel75]

She happened to call a few hours ago. We are meeting later this week to talk business. If everything goes as planned, I'm going to ask her to dinner and expose my true intentions with this situation. No excuses now fellas!

This is gonna end badly....

 

[ACsays10%]

Haha it could, but I really have nothing to lose. I know that getting to this point hasn't been easy, but I'm getting the opportunity I asked for. Believe it or not I'm a dominant male, she's a dominant female so it's going to be interesting.

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

hate to break it to you....

But shes a guy