"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Where to go from here?

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I have been dating a girl for a few weeks now. She isn't anything like girls I have been with in the past so it has taken me some time to get a grip on how she acts/etc.

My problem is I haven't hooked up with too many girls in the past couple of years, and the ones that I have, it happened when we were drunk so we basically just stripped each other at the first chance and went at it.

Going into this as more of a relationship (and being sober) I find myself a bit confused and nervous about screwing things up. When you're laying there watching a movie or something and you're already behind her/kissing her neck/etc. where to go from there?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Read the bible.
 
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^^ I just started reading it and already it's making sense! A lot of info here about the type of question you asked. Good luck man!
 
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