"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where to go from here?

GardenGrove

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I have been dating a girl for a few weeks now. She isn't anything like girls I have been with in the past so it has taken me some time to get a grip on how she acts/etc.

My problem is I haven't hooked up with too many girls in the past couple of years, and the ones that I have, it happened when we were drunk so we basically just stripped each other at the first chance and went at it.

Going into this as more of a relationship (and being sober) I find myself a bit confused and nervous about screwing things up. When you're laying there watching a movie or something and you're already behind her/kissing her neck/etc. where to go from there?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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adam225

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Read the bible.
 

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^^ I just started reading it and already it's making sense! A lot of info here about the type of question you asked. Good luck man!
 
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