"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Where to go from here?

GardenGrove

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I have been dating a girl for a few weeks now. She isn't anything like girls I have been with in the past so it has taken me some time to get a grip on how she acts/etc.

My problem is I haven't hooked up with too many girls in the past couple of years, and the ones that I have, it happened when we were drunk so we basically just stripped each other at the first chance and went at it.

Going into this as more of a relationship (and being sober) I find myself a bit confused and nervous about screwing things up. When you're laying there watching a movie or something and you're already behind her/kissing her neck/etc. where to go from there?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Read the bible.
 

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^^ I just started reading it and already it's making sense! A lot of info here about the type of question you asked. Good luck man!
 
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