"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where to go from here with girl?

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Ok, I'll make the backround story short...i've been modeling/acting in NYC for the past year and a half, and have decided to move back home. Well, I started browsing for girls on myspace and found one that I actually went to elementary school with, but other then that we don't know each other, only by name. Well, we have been chatting over myspace for the past 2-3 days and I did the whole, we have a lot in common, we should hang out thing.

Well, she sent back a very enthusiastic "yeah we should!" We have each other's AIM sns but continue to chat mostly through myspace. She is busy all week next week and I'm flying back to NYC to get the rest of my stuff next week and moving back here Oct. 1. So I've got like a 2 week window where we won't even be able to see each other, just more chatting. I haven't asked for her phone number yet, and am kind of shy to calling her up after meeting her online even though I know that's what I should do.

So how do I go about this? As far as talking to her more on myspace for the next 2 weeks until i'm back home for good, getting her number and calling her already or not, how much to chat with her, ect. Should I set up a date already or wait? I dunno, I've been out of the chasing game for a while, because I'm usually the one that gets pursued by women so I don't have to work hard at all, but I really like this chick. Thanks in advance guys
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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