"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Where to go from here with girl?

Viper423

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Ok, I'll make the backround story short...i've been modeling/acting in NYC for the past year and a half, and have decided to move back home. Well, I started browsing for girls on myspace and found one that I actually went to elementary school with, but other then that we don't know each other, only by name. Well, we have been chatting over myspace for the past 2-3 days and I did the whole, we have a lot in common, we should hang out thing.

Well, she sent back a very enthusiastic "yeah we should!" We have each other's AIM sns but continue to chat mostly through myspace. She is busy all week next week and I'm flying back to NYC to get the rest of my stuff next week and moving back here Oct. 1. So I've got like a 2 week window where we won't even be able to see each other, just more chatting. I haven't asked for her phone number yet, and am kind of shy to calling her up after meeting her online even though I know that's what I should do.

So how do I go about this? As far as talking to her more on myspace for the next 2 weeks until i'm back home for good, getting her number and calling her already or not, how much to chat with her, ect. Should I set up a date already or wait? I dunno, I've been out of the chasing game for a while, because I'm usually the one that gets pursued by women so I don't have to work hard at all, but I really like this chick. Thanks in advance guys
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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