"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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OK so, I can pretty much tell that this HB 8.5 I been talking to is interested in me now. It's past the talking part, now she's starting to flirt (smiling, eyeballing, touching.) Now I'm kind of stuck. I got her interested in me and I dont know where to go from here. What do I talk about now? I'm pretty good at getting to know them and holding a conversation, but now it's hard to do when the HB is giggling and smiling everytime you look at her. :up:

It was easy to get her to like me, I just have to step up the level now, and thats where I need help. What do I do/say when I walk in and she starts smiling and blushing. There is nothing to talk about anymore because I think I can just about write a biography on her if I wanted to lol. Is it too early to start making moves? I've known her for 3 long days now.

Thanks !!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dude i was in the same predicament,important thing to remember is GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE, brake through those mental barriers AND LISTEN TO YOUR GUT.It will be hard as hell at first but with practice YOUR PREVIOUS OUTLIMITS ARE NOW YOUR NEW COMFORT ZONE.At this point you HAVE to kino.Isolate and escalate(kino -> kiss -> sex?).
 
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"LISTEN TO YOUR GUT" that is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO freakin true its not even funny man. That's how I got to where I am with the HB in the first place. It was weird because I'm a pretty funny guy when I'm around my friends but I tend to hesitate with jokes around girls. But with this girl I wasn't holding anything back just going with my instincts. It's kind of hit or miss, like when you think of something funny to say but hold back because you have doubts that people will laugh or not.

What exactly is kino, isolate and escalate... I haven't been around this place too long so I'm not familiar with the terms just yet.
 
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Kino -> subtle touches at first like arm or shoulder,then ESCALATE to hair,leg,waist,cheek after this is good to go for a kiss,then "grab" her ass and whatnot and then fvck her.Isolate and escalate mean their dictionary meaning basically :p.Yeah and listen to your gut (i blocked my brain with alcohol though hehe) is how i got past every mental barrier i had to break through.It's so simple..."JUST FVCK IT" -> go for the kiss.. then i thought "hey it wasn't so hard",2nd time "I CAN DO THIS AGAIN" -> go for the kiss and i thought"im the pimpmaster" then "I will blow her away with this kiss" -> go for the kiss.
 
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