"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OK so, I can pretty much tell that this HB 8.5 I been talking to is interested in me now. It's past the talking part, now she's starting to flirt (smiling, eyeballing, touching.) Now I'm kind of stuck. I got her interested in me and I dont know where to go from here. What do I talk about now? I'm pretty good at getting to know them and holding a conversation, but now it's hard to do when the HB is giggling and smiling everytime you look at her. :up:

It was easy to get her to like me, I just have to step up the level now, and thats where I need help. What do I do/say when I walk in and she starts smiling and blushing. There is nothing to talk about anymore because I think I can just about write a biography on her if I wanted to lol. Is it too early to start making moves? I've known her for 3 long days now.

Thanks !!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dude i was in the same predicament,important thing to remember is GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE, brake through those mental barriers AND LISTEN TO YOUR GUT.It will be hard as hell at first but with practice YOUR PREVIOUS OUTLIMITS ARE NOW YOUR NEW COMFORT ZONE.At this point you HAVE to kino.Isolate and escalate(kino -> kiss -> sex?).
 
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"LISTEN TO YOUR GUT" that is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO freakin true its not even funny man. That's how I got to where I am with the HB in the first place. It was weird because I'm a pretty funny guy when I'm around my friends but I tend to hesitate with jokes around girls. But with this girl I wasn't holding anything back just going with my instincts. It's kind of hit or miss, like when you think of something funny to say but hold back because you have doubts that people will laugh or not.

What exactly is kino, isolate and escalate... I haven't been around this place too long so I'm not familiar with the terms just yet.
 
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Kino -> subtle touches at first like arm or shoulder,then ESCALATE to hair,leg,waist,cheek after this is good to go for a kiss,then "grab" her ass and whatnot and then fvck her.Isolate and escalate mean their dictionary meaning basically :p.Yeah and listen to your gut (i blocked my brain with alcohol though hehe) is how i got past every mental barrier i had to break through.It's so simple..."JUST FVCK IT" -> go for the kiss.. then i thought "hey it wasn't so hard",2nd time "I CAN DO THIS AGAIN" -> go for the kiss and i thought"im the pimpmaster" then "I will blow her away with this kiss" -> go for the kiss.
 
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