picard
Master Don Juan
where is good place to find ladies on Xmas eve? Some place where there are lots of ladies congregate together for parties?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
where to find ladies on Xmas eve?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
on christmas eve?
um, church? midnight mass. that's christmas eve right?
no one is out "singles" partying on christmas eve. people hang with their families or go to "couples" parties.
christmas is the season for all the single people sit alone at home and beat themselves up as to why they don't have someone. hahaha.
that's why the suicide rate is the highest during the christmas season.
honestly, people need to just chill and not put so much f*cking pressure on themselves and be so self critical.
J
um, church? midnight mass. that's christmas eve right?
no one is out "singles" partying on christmas eve. people hang with their families or go to "couples" parties.
christmas is the season for all the single people sit alone at home and beat themselves up as to why they don't have someone. hahaha.
that's why the suicide rate is the highest during the christmas season.
honestly, people need to just chill and not put so much f*cking pressure on themselves and be so self critical.
J
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
There are TONS of ladies out in my town for xmas eve! Believe me they party it up big time for the holidays if they're here on vacaton.
too bad I'll be back i my boreing home town till about a day before new years...another SICK party that has lots of girls getting topless.
too bad I'll be back i my boreing home town till about a day before new years...another SICK party that has lots of girls getting topless.
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Walk to your front door. Put your hand on the knob. Turn gently to the left.
Look ahead slightly. . . Take a few steps . . .Turn and look to your right. Talk to first woman you spot.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Christmas Eve is family night -- wait until Christmas night. By then people will be looking to get away from their families, and the ladies will be full of holiday spirit. Christmas night is also much better than NYE which is entirely overrated and tends to be a letdown for many people.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Hoes, hoes, hoes
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.