"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OK so, this girl contacted me from the dating site, and we've been chatting a little today, and I told her that I'll find something for next weekend so where should I take her? Is one week of interaction too soon to be dating?

Her Message to me:
I read your profile and I really enjoyed what I read Smile

My profile isn't that interesting to read, I never really know what I should write.

I did find alot of things in your profile very interesting.I appreciate your values and I think we could have some really great coversations.

Take a look at my very tiny profile and let me know what you think Smile


Her Profile:
Im not into playing head games, so Im looking for something sincere and real.
Im outgoing and all around happy.
I like being active.In the summer I like to go camping, hiking , biking and If I can find someone to go with me....maybe a little kyaking ( im sure I spelled that wrong lol). In the winter I like to go skating , and If I can find someone with enough patience to show me..., and If I can find someone with enough patience to show me...maybe a little skiing.

I'd like to find someone with the same outlook on life as my own, as well as a good humour. If you can make me laugh , you're good in my books Smile
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Might as well take her to a movie or anyother place where you can get a bit of isolation going on.

Hell since she likes hiking maybe you could do that with her.

If you've got a lot of stamina doing that would be good for great conversation with her so you two can get to know eachother better.
 
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Take her to a park, icecream shop, keep it cheap and isolated
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This is a good one. :up: Take her somewhere YOU think would be fun, and try to enjoy yourself. Don't spend much money on her, and don't spend very long. (Also, whenever you take a girl to two different places, it already puts her into more of a dating mindframe. It's like going out twice for the price of once.)

Coffee or desert sounds good.

Is one week of interaction too soon to be dating?
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Hell no. Read the damn Bible, n00b.
 
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