"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Where should I take an online date? first ever date for me.

Canadien

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OK so, this girl contacted me from the dating site, and we've been chatting a little today, and I told her that I'll find something for next weekend so where should I take her? Is one week of interaction too soon to be dating?

Her Message to me:
I read your profile and I really enjoyed what I read Smile

My profile isn't that interesting to read, I never really know what I should write.

I did find alot of things in your profile very interesting.I appreciate your values and I think we could have some really great coversations.

Take a look at my very tiny profile and let me know what you think Smile


Her Profile:
Im not into playing head games, so Im looking for something sincere and real.
Im outgoing and all around happy.
I like being active.In the summer I like to go camping, hiking , biking and If I can find someone to go with me....maybe a little kyaking ( im sure I spelled that wrong lol). In the winter I like to go skating , and If I can find someone with enough patience to show me..., and If I can find someone with enough patience to show me...maybe a little skiing.

I'd like to find someone with the same outlook on life as my own, as well as a good humour. If you can make me laugh , you're good in my books Smile
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

KontrollerX

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Might as well take her to a movie or anyother place where you can get a bit of isolation going on.

Hell since she likes hiking maybe you could do that with her.

If you've got a lot of stamina doing that would be good for great conversation with her so you two can get to know eachother better.
 

Obsidian

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Take her to a park, icecream shop, keep it cheap and isolated
This is a good one. :up: Take her somewhere YOU think would be fun, and try to enjoy yourself. Don't spend much money on her, and don't spend very long. (Also, whenever you take a girl to two different places, it already puts her into more of a dating mindframe. It's like going out twice for the price of once.)

Coffee or desert sounds good.

Is one week of interaction too soon to be dating?
Hell no. Read the damn Bible, n00b.
 
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