Where is your Stumbling Block with Women?

[bigneil]

At what point do you normally see your approach to women getting derailed?

 

[Who Dares Win]

after the 5th or 6th sexual intercourse...months? lucky you mate I can bang relatively easy but Im totally incapable of keeping them or maybe I lack something that they look in a long term guy.
The good thing is that after disappearing for months they call me again out of nowhere so if Im in the middle of a dry spell I can break it.

 

[SoldMySoul]

^^^^Me for the most part^^^^I voted and it would easily be maintaining a rship... I always start off like a true champ, but lose the frame because of stupidity... I guess I am like a lot of the PUA...can get the close most of the time if I set my mind to it, but I need to hone my long distance skills.

I desire a relationship!!!

 

[thorwynn]

Having a Relationship (> 3 months)....just voted for it..hehe

 

[Fly By Night]

Mine is kind of in the middle of talking to women and getting phone numbers. I have trouble being more sexual to women I want to game. I can get their number, but they do not want to meet up with me mostly because they did not get to know me well enough when we first met. :/

 

[bigneil]

I've found that no matter where you fail along the path (to ?), you tend to feel equally bad.

 

[Serg897]

Most definately having a long term relationship (> 6 months). The ones I'm truly interested in seem to always leave so far. Gota keep myself in check better.

 

[Leporello]

It's not at any particular point. It's being a nice guy. I really, really, REALLY have to stop being such a doormat.

 

[SgtSplacker]

With me it's just meeting women with my same interests. I think I do reasonably well considering my appearance and financial position.

 

[Eternal_water]

2 words

Approach Anxiety

 

[Sofomore]

I have bad approach anxiety. Once I get over it I can usually chat up the girls but just DOING IT and approaching is the hardest part for me.

 

[MasterFuu]

I think to be successful with woman one must know himself first. Have you ever met a woman where you just click and are yourself? It's not easy to find but it's out there. Find that. Then you can be yourself weather you are cool, or nerdy or funny or arrogant. She will "get it" and you can be truly yourself. Beware not to let your walls down completely and become too comfortable. That usually would be the end of what could become a great relationship. Ha ha speaking from experience :crackup:
I'm somewhat of a socially awkward guy although I can speak to any girl and am confident I need to click with her. Or my interest dies. If my interest is suddenly low the girl can feel that and her interest goes low.
My past relationships I found a girl that I click with and went from there. If I don't click I just move on fast.
I could never understand my friend Dr.L who slept with 400+ woman (hes 30) and is on a pu^^y conquest. All that time and money and drama..I could not manage that. So to him the whole "clicking" strategy does not even matter.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Mine isn't an option: trying to add her to your lineup. Many girls just fade out after the first lay.

 

[rum]

Keeping her interested after 5-6 months or so. I can pitch a perfect game 3-4 months into a relationship...after that I can't seem to do much right.

 

[bigneil]

All of my relationships last exactly 5 months and 9 days.

 

[Powerofmindset]

All of my relationships last exactly 5 months and 9 days.

rofl...just how many? Mine sink ship at around 9 months lol...i always found some sick humor about it.

 

[bigneil]

I can name four relationships that lasted exactly that long. However, in 3 of them I moved away.

 

[perseverance]

Finding a woman who I click with is my stumbling block. I found her once and through my own AFC behaviour she got away, but I'm sure another woman with who I click with will come along at some point with differing results, so I am not too worried at the moment.

I've always maintained that I do not want to go down the road of the PUA or someone who wh*res himself to any woman. I'm sure if I really wanted to I could easily increase the notches to my bed post, but the desire to plough my way through the Citeh is not there. I'm looking for quality over quantity and at the moment I cannot seem to find the quality.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

My stumbling block would be getting it to rub the lotion on it's skin and do it as it's told or else it gets the hose again.

 

[Kenny Powers]

Honestly I just have trouble meeting women. I have solid game and looks and get interest from girls all the time. During night game girls I get numbers from tell me to "text them" all the time - though it rarely amounts to much since they're drunk and we only talked for like 5 min (gotta work on this).

I think I need to expand my social circle so i can meet more girls. I just need to meet an attractive, intelligent and single girl and when both of us are sober!