Luke Skywalker
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Where is the 'Unusual Techniques of seduction'?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
There is no hidden mystery to seducing women. Some girls will like you. Some girls won't. Out of the girls who like you some will sleep with you. Some girls won't.
Step 1 - Go up to a girl and talk about anything. This is where being an interesting person helps. If you're dull you're SOL.
Step 2 - Ask for her phone number.
Step 3 - Ask her to hang out (cup of coffee, drinks, anything but dinner and a movie).
Step 4 - After two hours of hanging out if she's feeling it ask her if she wants to come back to your place.
Step 5a) If no then make plans for another night.
Step 5b) Go back to your place and screw.
What's so unusual about that?
Step 1 - Go up to a girl and talk about anything. This is where being an interesting person helps. If you're dull you're SOL.
Step 2 - Ask for her phone number.
Step 3 - Ask her to hang out (cup of coffee, drinks, anything but dinner and a movie).
Step 4 - After two hours of hanging out if she's feeling it ask her if she wants to come back to your place.
Step 5a) If no then make plans for another night.
Step 5b) Go back to your place and screw.
What's so unusual about that?
JPFromTally said:
Yep, this is pretty much it! Sometimes it may take a bit more time and a few dates, but this is the essence of seduction.
Of course, the more attractive, confident and more interesting you are as a person, the higher your chances of success.
There is really no need to make it any more complicated. Instead of working on "unusual techniques", work on making yourself a better person and increasing your odds.
JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
Well said.Jariel said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.