"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Where is the line between playing games and just pure ignorance

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An old plate hits me up last night and were chatting on messenger , the convo is fun I’m actually enjoying speaking to her not running any routine just genuinely chatting and she’s very responsive no signs of low interest no red flags

So the next bit i find a bit weird ,

She asks me a funny question and i respond with the answer and some humour

Then bang nothing goes ghost on me ,

I mean the conversation we were having isn’t by any means over infact its just getting good , she gives no indication she’s leaving the conversation just complete ghost

I think ok wtf, whatever pheraps shes tired and head to bed myself get up this morning and still nothing :confused:

Chick hits ME up , asks ME questions and then goes ghost on ME

i gotta be honest i aint been this confused in a while , she surely cant believe that being that rude is actually going to raise my interest in her :eek:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I can imagine it'd be hard to type when she's getting railed by some dude.
 

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I'm in a similar spot. Girl initiates, wants to make plans to meet, I reply asking about her schedule then nothing. ***** got another thing coming if she thinks she can behave like this, and i'd advise you to do the same..go ghost let her initiate/chase.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
I can imagine it'd be hard to type when she's getting railed by some dude.
yea me too so why even bother start to messaging me , they must have been getting ready for round 2 or something :whistle:

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yea thats exactly what shes doing mauser , but in my experiences a chick will usually go ghost towards the end of the convo not bang in the middle of it ......wierd
 

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OP, this chick is making her rounds looking for validation to see who is still out there orbiting. All she wants from you at the point in time she contacts you is to know you are still there. I agree with Mauser96, ignore her. Don't give her the validation she is seeking, let the 9 other chumps she messaged waste their time on her while you move on.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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agreed !!!

ima go so ghost on this bish she be thinking i changed my name to casper
 
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