"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Where is the line between playing games and just pure ignorance

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An old plate hits me up last night and were chatting on messenger , the convo is fun I’m actually enjoying speaking to her not running any routine just genuinely chatting and she’s very responsive no signs of low interest no red flags

So the next bit i find a bit weird ,

She asks me a funny question and i respond with the answer and some humour

Then bang nothing goes ghost on me ,

I mean the conversation we were having isn’t by any means over infact its just getting good , she gives no indication she’s leaving the conversation just complete ghost

I think ok wtf, whatever pheraps shes tired and head to bed myself get up this morning and still nothing :confused:

Chick hits ME up , asks ME questions and then goes ghost on ME

i gotta be honest i aint been this confused in a while , she surely cant believe that being that rude is actually going to raise my interest in her :eek:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I can imagine it'd be hard to type when she's getting railed by some dude.
 

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I'm in a similar spot. Girl initiates, wants to make plans to meet, I reply asking about her schedule then nothing. ***** got another thing coming if she thinks she can behave like this, and i'd advise you to do the same..go ghost let her initiate/chase.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
I can imagine it'd be hard to type when she's getting railed by some dude.
yea me too so why even bother start to messaging me , they must have been getting ready for round 2 or something :whistle:

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yea thats exactly what shes doing mauser , but in my experiences a chick will usually go ghost towards the end of the convo not bang in the middle of it ......wierd
 

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OP, this chick is making her rounds looking for validation to see who is still out there orbiting. All she wants from you at the point in time she contacts you is to know you are still there. I agree with Mauser96, ignore her. Don't give her the validation she is seeking, let the 9 other chumps she messaged waste their time on her while you move on.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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agreed !!!

ima go so ghost on this bish she be thinking i changed my name to casper
 
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