penkitten
Master Don Juan
Can't find it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Where is the bible?
- Thread starter penkitten
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Aspiring Don Juan
Don Juan
Is it ever going to come back up? I've found that every page that I have bookmarked in the past no longer works
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Yes, there is a way to fix it. Desdinova is currently working on it. Will take a few weeks though, so be patient. Still working out the kinks on the new site.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
GetSwifty
Don Juan
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- Nov 19, 2015
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https://web.archive.org/web/20120703090915/http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible
Some of the links may not be archived, but the few I checked, all worked.
That's always a good place to look, any time the old version of anything disappears. Archive has just about every significant page available, so long as you have the original link.
Some of the links may not be archived, but the few I checked, all worked.
That's always a good place to look, any time the old version of anything disappears. Archive has just about every significant page available, so long as you have the original link.