penkitten
Master Don Juan
Can't find it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Where is the bible?
- Thread starter penkitten
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Aspiring Don Juan
Don Juan
Is it ever going to come back up? I've found that every page that I have bookmarked in the past no longer works
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Yes, there is a way to fix it. Desdinova is currently working on it. Will take a few weeks though, so be patient. Still working out the kinks on the new site.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
GetSwifty
Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 19, 2015
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- 34
https://web.archive.org/web/20120703090915/http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible
Some of the links may not be archived, but the few I checked, all worked.
That's always a good place to look, any time the old version of anything disappears. Archive has just about every significant page available, so long as you have the original link.
Some of the links may not be archived, but the few I checked, all worked.
That's always a good place to look, any time the old version of anything disappears. Archive has just about every significant page available, so long as you have the original link.