"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Where is the balance?

2Rocky

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As a younger man, I wanted to be the guy who had the answers. The guy who "knows a guy", the guy who hears about opportunities first, The expert in my field.


But in discussing boundaries when do I go from being an Authority to being the "Research *****"?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WadeWatts

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When your information either, one ups or trumps everyone else’s the majority of the time. Not that I have ever researched this ratio out but maybe apply the 2/3’s rule to this. Less is more.
Hope this helps
 

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Depends on the depth required. If you want some rules of thumb it's a topic. Your looking for general tactics that work most of the time.

If you want to make it situational you re trying to develop a decision making framework and need to go deep.

Given we believe in the panning for gold approach here - sifting through lots of material (screening) for the rare nuggets I think rules of thumb and let the chips fall is the best bang for buck.
 
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