BootsOfEscaping
Don Juan
I am planning to move but don't know where to. Give me some ideas.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Where is a cool place to live?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
NY
thejuice
Master Don Juan
I hear Alaska is pretty cool
BootsOfEscaping
Don Juan
Alaska? Yeah its pretty cold maybe but I don't know about cool. NY is hip and all but I wouldn't want to live there. I have a lot of friends from Long Island/NYC area.
One of the prerequisites for me moving somewhere is the gun laws being to my taste. I am a gun nut. I have been getting into sniping as a hobby. I also have concealed permits in as many states as I can so that is a factor. Maybe I should move back to Florida. Anyone been to the Melbourne area?
I tried California and its liberal hell and WAY too expensive. I wish there was a place like New Hampshire, but warm like Florida and on the water with tons of hot ass. ha. I am dreaming now....how about New Florida? haha.
One of the prerequisites for me moving somewhere is the gun laws being to my taste. I am a gun nut. I have been getting into sniping as a hobby. I also have concealed permits in as many states as I can so that is a factor. Maybe I should move back to Florida. Anyone been to the Melbourne area?
I tried California and its liberal hell and WAY too expensive. I wish there was a place like New Hampshire, but warm like Florida and on the water with tons of hot ass. ha. I am dreaming now....how about New Florida? haha.
InsidiousNstinct
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NOT TENNESSEE........
People are friendly but nothing to do.....
People are friendly but nothing to do....."She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
GlutusMaximus86
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Move somewhere in VA (like around the chesabeake {SP?} bay), the gun laws here are pretty loose and the weather is alright.
jiza101
Master Don Juan
Melbourne Australia :O
Or Melbourne America.
Cause in melb aus, no guns for you sunnie. Unless you join a gun club.
Or Melbourne America.
Cause in melb aus, no guns for you sunnie. Unless you join a gun club.
Snatchmaster
Don Juan
New Orleans
Looziana is a sportman's paradise (lots of hunting).
And the broads, hot ass everywhere (but not as much as dc and ny).
Looziana is a sportman's paradise (lots of hunting).
And the broads, hot ass everywhere (but not as much as dc and ny).
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Barcelona!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sweet Ken
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If you like guns, move to Utah, especially the southern part. In my state, there's a town where it's against the law NOT to own a gun.
InsidiousNstinct
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HAHAHAHA...that made me laugh.
BootsOfEscaping
Don Juan
No I mean Melbourne Florida. I actually lived in Melbourne Australia for some time, I LOVE it there and plan to buy property in Oz at some point. Australia is great!