BootsOfEscaping
Don Juan
I am planning to move but don't know where to. Give me some ideas.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Where is a cool place to live?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
NY
thejuice
Master Don Juan
I hear Alaska is pretty cool
BootsOfEscaping
Don Juan
Alaska? Yeah its pretty cold maybe but I don't know about cool. NY is hip and all but I wouldn't want to live there. I have a lot of friends from Long Island/NYC area.
One of the prerequisites for me moving somewhere is the gun laws being to my taste. I am a gun nut. I have been getting into sniping as a hobby. I also have concealed permits in as many states as I can so that is a factor. Maybe I should move back to Florida. Anyone been to the Melbourne area?
I tried California and its liberal hell and WAY too expensive. I wish there was a place like New Hampshire, but warm like Florida and on the water with tons of hot ass. ha. I am dreaming now....how about New Florida? haha.
One of the prerequisites for me moving somewhere is the gun laws being to my taste. I am a gun nut. I have been getting into sniping as a hobby. I also have concealed permits in as many states as I can so that is a factor. Maybe I should move back to Florida. Anyone been to the Melbourne area?
I tried California and its liberal hell and WAY too expensive. I wish there was a place like New Hampshire, but warm like Florida and on the water with tons of hot ass. ha. I am dreaming now....how about New Florida? haha.
InsidiousNstinct
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NOT TENNESSEE........
People are friendly but nothing to do.....
People are friendly but nothing to do....."So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
GlutusMaximus86
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Move somewhere in VA (like around the chesabeake {SP?} bay), the gun laws here are pretty loose and the weather is alright.
jiza101
Master Don Juan
Melbourne Australia :O
Or Melbourne America.
Cause in melb aus, no guns for you sunnie. Unless you join a gun club.
Or Melbourne America.
Cause in melb aus, no guns for you sunnie. Unless you join a gun club.
Snatchmaster
Don Juan
New Orleans
Looziana is a sportman's paradise (lots of hunting).
And the broads, hot ass everywhere (but not as much as dc and ny).
Looziana is a sportman's paradise (lots of hunting).
And the broads, hot ass everywhere (but not as much as dc and ny).
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Barcelona!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Sweet Ken
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If you like guns, move to Utah, especially the southern part. In my state, there's a town where it's against the law NOT to own a gun.
InsidiousNstinct
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HAHAHAHA...that made me laugh.
BootsOfEscaping
Don Juan
No I mean Melbourne Florida. I actually lived in Melbourne Australia for some time, I LOVE it there and plan to buy property in Oz at some point. Australia is great!