"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bible_Belt

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As I speak there are like 5 pairs of shoes all over the floor of my house

I remembered that you are a neat freak.

My sosuave gripes are the 'girls have cooties' excessive std fears and the misogynist way of calling every woman who has been with a couple dozen guys The Wh0re of Babylon.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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a neat freak I am. I'm working on her. She's not THAT bad honestly but I walked and was on the phone and tripped over a high heel the other day, in my own damn living room. that's not very fun.

it makes for a good game of WAR however... if we ever get into it there is already ammunition on the ground to start slinging at each other.

on your gripe, a very good friend I grew up with I just found out he has HIV, so I've been on my soap box for the last c ouple of months about getting tested and making sure about cooties and all that good stuff.

i'd be funny if cooties was an actual STD
 

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Cooties are probably crabs. They are the only funny std, probably because they are so easy to get rid of.

My condolences on your hiv+ friend.
 

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lookyoung said:
No problem that is what seperates men from the boys. I am glad you finally see that honesty is a good thing. Maybe your time away has given you the confidence and selfesteem to be real this time.
"Haters hate, then let 'em hate and watch the money pile up."

Welcome Back sexy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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almost forgot. I'm pretty sure I ran into someone here on the forum about 2 m onths ago out at a resturant. Becuse only someone that came to this site and who was a newb could get ****y and funny so god damn wrong.

you know..when it's ovbious you are scripting? The guy ltierarly... while I"m taking my GF out on a date.. not minding anyone else's business, decides he is going to make a joke about my hat I had on (a fedeora), when I say out of nowhere.. literarly... all I here is "godfather hat" and he's looking and pointing at me.

i could not even get mad because I've been there at one point. whoever you are man.. just keep tryin. eventually it will come.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
My sosuave gripes are the 'girls have cooties' excessive std fears and the misogynist way of calling every woman who has been with a couple dozen guys The Wh0re of Babylon.
A-MEN brother.

Some people think they have escaped the matrix, when in reality all they have done is simply realize that it exists.
 

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backbreaker said:
you know..when it's ovbious you are scripting? The guy ltierarly... while I"m taking my GF out on a date.. not minding anyone else's business, decides he is going to make a joke about my hat I had on (a fedeora), when I say out of nowhere.. literarly... all I here is "godfather hat" and he's looking and pointing at me.

i could not even get mad because I've been there at one point. whoever you are man.. just keep tryin. eventually it will come.
You were the black guy, right?

I just need a little more practice. Thanks for the support!

Oh, welcome back!:cheer:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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