DonJuanabe
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 20, 2012
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AD provided great information and advice. But everyone is different so nothing should be taken as law.
1) AD said talk things not ideas. Keep everything light and simple. I disagree. Some girls are brainy/nerdy and really enjoy intellectual discussions and topics. If you are also like that then don't avoid going there. If nerdy is not your style that's fine, but two nerds tend to get along well when they are being who they are. A guy who is nerdy should weed out a girl who is not nerdy and keep the ones who are nerdy.
2) AD said do action dates for the first month or two. I disagree. Often there just isn't time during the week for action dates -- dinner it is. That's just reality of having a job/career. And to be honest it is a good way to actually have a conversation so you can learn who she is and judge whether she is good for you.
1) AD said talk things not ideas. Keep everything light and simple. I disagree. Some girls are brainy/nerdy and really enjoy intellectual discussions and topics. If you are also like that then don't avoid going there. If nerdy is not your style that's fine, but two nerds tend to get along well when they are being who they are. A guy who is nerdy should weed out a girl who is not nerdy and keep the ones who are nerdy.
2) AD said do action dates for the first month or two. I disagree. Often there just isn't time during the week for action dates -- dinner it is. That's just reality of having a job/career. And to be honest it is a good way to actually have a conversation so you can learn who she is and judge whether she is good for you.