"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where/how did you meet your current/past gfs?

devrob

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I know girls are everywhere. I have no problems chatting them up. I joke around and flirt with them everywhere I go. But these small exchanges rarely lead anywhere more than small talk.

I don't drink and so I don't go to bars/clubs. It's usually a sausage fest, and pretty unhealthy staying out that late anyway. I have tried it plenty of times, it's just not my thing.

At my job is the only place where I feel like I can get to know girls over an extended period of time, and really get to know them. Lots of flirting at work with my female coworkers. Where else can I go to meet girls and really get to know them well enough to go and hang out?

At school I only have an opportunity in 2 classes to talk with girls, and during those I do flirt with the girls and joke around, but I feel like there still isn't much time to chat further without running into them somehow outside of class.

I have a hunch that most people meet girls through their friends, and so I've been trying to expand my social circle but I'm still working on that. Then again, I might make a bunch of guy friends and never lead to any girls.

I'm not looking to just get laid. Last week I had sex with a model that's actually been in magazines/TV, etc. so meaningless sex means nothing. It doesn't boost my confidence or make me feel special. I feel the same just wacking off. What I'm looking for is a companion, a girl that I can share some chemistry with.

Any ideas of where/how to meet these types of girls is appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Leporello

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Aragon034

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My last girlfriend i met through a FB at work. first met her at a house party, talked her up, had a blast, a few weeks later we're 'dating'.

i understand what you mean by companionship, but to find something like that takes alot of time and effort. What nation/city are you in? i have high doubts in north american women when it comes to something like that unless they're hardcore religious (which brings an entirely different host of problems)
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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