"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Where/how did you meet your current/past gfs?

devrob

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I know girls are everywhere. I have no problems chatting them up. I joke around and flirt with them everywhere I go. But these small exchanges rarely lead anywhere more than small talk.

I don't drink and so I don't go to bars/clubs. It's usually a sausage fest, and pretty unhealthy staying out that late anyway. I have tried it plenty of times, it's just not my thing.

At my job is the only place where I feel like I can get to know girls over an extended period of time, and really get to know them. Lots of flirting at work with my female coworkers. Where else can I go to meet girls and really get to know them well enough to go and hang out?

At school I only have an opportunity in 2 classes to talk with girls, and during those I do flirt with the girls and joke around, but I feel like there still isn't much time to chat further without running into them somehow outside of class.

I have a hunch that most people meet girls through their friends, and so I've been trying to expand my social circle but I'm still working on that. Then again, I might make a bunch of guy friends and never lead to any girls.

I'm not looking to just get laid. Last week I had sex with a model that's actually been in magazines/TV, etc. so meaningless sex means nothing. It doesn't boost my confidence or make me feel special. I feel the same just wacking off. What I'm looking for is a companion, a girl that I can share some chemistry with.

Any ideas of where/how to meet these types of girls is appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My last girlfriend i met through a FB at work. first met her at a house party, talked her up, had a blast, a few weeks later we're 'dating'.

i understand what you mean by companionship, but to find something like that takes alot of time and effort. What nation/city are you in? i have high doubts in north american women when it comes to something like that unless they're hardcore religious (which brings an entirely different host of problems)
 

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