"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Where have the fun woman gone?

Splendidostring

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Hiya guys,

I'm actually quite drunk, and when I'm drunk I feel like writing stuff, no specific reason why, I guess just the need to express myself. So here it goes.

I'm 25 years old and as I get older I find it more and more hard to meet quality woman. Simply put, every woman I meet nowadays BORE me out of my mind.

This makes me ask myself : WHERE HAVE THE FUN WOMAN GONE? If I go back in time, couple years ago I would often meet girls I'd find FUN not only because they were cute but because they were actually INTERESTING. Now, every woman I meet tell me the same boring ****, how they work, how they do their typical STUFF, YAWN. I mean, sure every woman do the same things, it's just that some of them had this special trick where they made it sound fun, I just don't meet that kind of girls anymore. Anyone can relate?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zonder

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As women age they become more picky. If you are not intrinsically a fun guy you might have trouble attracting them. Also, women at that age start looking for stable relationships and take money into consideration when choosing a LTR partner. Fun, original, intelligent women (and you obviously imply attractive as well) can afford to screen for wealthier people without sacrificing quality.
 

Splendidostring

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Oh well you lost me at being fun. I'm a student living at my parent's place, so forget about wealth for the moment. Ain't gonna buy that Roll before a while lol.
 

sodbuster

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Well, when things stop being new,they can start to be boring-are you as excited about pizza or Mexican as you were as a kid? Once you've been there and done that a couple times, it's not as fun. I had a blast my first 2 cruises-the third,not so much. May not ever do another one. ONce you've seen a couple fun women, they start looking and sounding alike.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nutz

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I think the simplest solution is to just stick with chicks that are younger.
 
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