"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where have the fun woman gone?

Splendidostring

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Hiya guys,

I'm actually quite drunk, and when I'm drunk I feel like writing stuff, no specific reason why, I guess just the need to express myself. So here it goes.

I'm 25 years old and as I get older I find it more and more hard to meet quality woman. Simply put, every woman I meet nowadays BORE me out of my mind.

This makes me ask myself : WHERE HAVE THE FUN WOMAN GONE? If I go back in time, couple years ago I would often meet girls I'd find FUN not only because they were cute but because they were actually INTERESTING. Now, every woman I meet tell me the same boring ****, how they work, how they do their typical STUFF, YAWN. I mean, sure every woman do the same things, it's just that some of them had this special trick where they made it sound fun, I just don't meet that kind of girls anymore. Anyone can relate?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zonder

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As women age they become more picky. If you are not intrinsically a fun guy you might have trouble attracting them. Also, women at that age start looking for stable relationships and take money into consideration when choosing a LTR partner. Fun, original, intelligent women (and you obviously imply attractive as well) can afford to screen for wealthier people without sacrificing quality.
 

Splendidostring

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Oh well you lost me at being fun. I'm a student living at my parent's place, so forget about wealth for the moment. Ain't gonna buy that Roll before a while lol.
 

sodbuster

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Well, when things stop being new,they can start to be boring-are you as excited about pizza or Mexican as you were as a kid? Once you've been there and done that a couple times, it's not as fun. I had a blast my first 2 cruises-the third,not so much. May not ever do another one. ONce you've seen a couple fun women, they start looking and sounding alike.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nutz

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I think the simplest solution is to just stick with chicks that are younger.
 
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