"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where have all the real guys gone?

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WORKEROUTER

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Ive been at sosuave for a long time under other names, and I have noticed that the Health and Fitness forum has really gone downhill. Actually, it seems like the overall message board really took a trip down south. I read the HF forum occasionally now and am totally dissapointed. As a way to help spruce up these boards, i have thought of a plan:

Take the Health forum, for example. The health forum should be divided into TWO seperate forums.. One, for the newbies, and the other for the people who dont have time to sift thru newbie questions all day. And how would we make this seperation work?Very easily...A multiple choice quiz will be REQUIRED for each user who wishes to enter the more advanced forum. In this quiz will basically be the newbie questions that CONTINUE TO SPRING UP, such as calorie intake for growth, types of exercises to help develop the most, etc. Each ISP address will only be allotted ONE QUIZ per every month or so..this way, the newbies will have to go learn something b4 they start spurting sh*t out of their mouth.

In this way, the health forum will retain the greatness it once had. More advanced health nuts will be able to discuss issues with peers of their own knowledge level, not some skinny teenyweeny.

ALSO, in order to help these newbies out, a HEALTH AND FITNESS BIBLE should be made.


This is an idea that will definately help bring this forum up to speed...And I feel you might also apply this to a DJ pickup forum, too.

Regardless of whether this idea is chosen or not, something needs to be done to spruce this forum up. :eek:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mack Of All Trades

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The bible idea is a good idea, but everything else really isnt.

1) If the noobs are seperated from the experts in the Health and fitness forum, then how will they ever learn anything? Exactly.

2) A quiz? That's kinda stupid. Anyone could just look up answers online, and besides, who cares about passing a quiz to demonstrate "experience"? Nobody would care about a stupid quiz. People have already came up with this idea (unsuccessfully) in reference to some of the other forums.
 
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if you could search the forum by DJ status, the oldtimers (like myself) can easily find the posts more realitive to our DJ level.

T Dog
 
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