"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Where girls go to get laid

fight4life

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This is a topic orginally brought up by Swinggcat and I can't believe I looked over it in the past! The idea here is really to kill 2 birds with one stone. Find yourself a dance studio.

First of all, the best PUAs know how to dance. Knowing how to dance and move a girl creates instant attraction. This is a good bridge into comfort because in a way she is trusting you by letting you move her around. It's extremely important to use your touch on her most sensitive spots (not there yet.) You want her to anchor you to her physical pleasure.
Secondly, you will be the only guy there. Imagine, all women and you can practice pick up on them. Girls that dance are verrrry kinesthetic. Therefore, you know kino escalation will open a lot of doors for you. Along with that, most of them are great in bed.

This is more about getting laid though, it's about building your lifestyle. Good dance skills come in handy and gaining that part of your personality will create more fun and excitement for YOU, as well as everybody else.

Anybody that has tryed dance studios please post. I'm going to check them out and sign up this week.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I actually signed up for Salsa lessons next week. I used to go ballroom dancing when swing was popular, it's definately a good way to meet women.
 

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Just don't go in with your expectations too high. There are unattractive women everywhere, and if your looking for a secret stash of hotties you may be extremelly disappointed.
 

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Cash37 said:
Just don't go in with your expectations too high. There are unattractive women everywhere, and if your looking for a secret stash of hotties you may be extremelly disappointed.
Good way to put a negative spin on it...

No all the girls I know that dance are insanely hot. As long as there is at least 1 hot girl in the dance group of 15, I'll be happy. I danced with a HB 9 in chapel hill and just moved her around here and there... her being a **** tease on the whole club her eyes lit up with sexual energy. It ended up being an interesting night...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That's the whole point of coming across as sexual, but not putting it into words or letting her know she has you any time any place. She has to feel like she's caught in the path of a hunter that has finally chosen a prey, and if she fails to play along and give in to the best experience she's had, you need to quickly move on. Who knows? I've had women persue me after I dropped them out of annoyance.
 

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Oh by the way, yeah it is a good idea to put your ego aside and learn some rhythem. Don't go joining so do you think you can dance, though.

I personally would go do something that benefits you more than wasting your time on just going to meet women or so you can IMPRESS them. I'd much rather hit up yoga classes if I had the time.

The whole idea of trying to form a connection with a woman just because you're in the same class or have the same friends doesn't give me the satisfaction that it does if I went out and got what I wanted when I wanted. The satisfaction of seeing the most beautiful woman that you've ever seen walk by, and then waking up next to her two weeks later is the most amazing feeling ever. If I could have done that from the start, I would have never slept with as many women as I did to get personal peace.
 

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Sexual said:
I personally would go do something that benefits you more than wasting your time on just going to meet women or so you can IMPRESS them. I'd much rather hit up yoga classes if I had the time.
Those are actually good to meet women :p

If you like dancing, dance. If you hate is, don't. The women you pick up doing something you like are probably more of a match.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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