"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Where girls go to get laid

fight4life

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This is a topic orginally brought up by Swinggcat and I can't believe I looked over it in the past! The idea here is really to kill 2 birds with one stone. Find yourself a dance studio.

First of all, the best PUAs know how to dance. Knowing how to dance and move a girl creates instant attraction. This is a good bridge into comfort because in a way she is trusting you by letting you move her around. It's extremely important to use your touch on her most sensitive spots (not there yet.) You want her to anchor you to her physical pleasure.
Secondly, you will be the only guy there. Imagine, all women and you can practice pick up on them. Girls that dance are verrrry kinesthetic. Therefore, you know kino escalation will open a lot of doors for you. Along with that, most of them are great in bed.

This is more about getting laid though, it's about building your lifestyle. Good dance skills come in handy and gaining that part of your personality will create more fun and excitement for YOU, as well as everybody else.

Anybody that has tryed dance studios please post. I'm going to check them out and sign up this week.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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On Point

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I actually signed up for Salsa lessons next week. I used to go ballroom dancing when swing was popular, it's definately a good way to meet women.
 

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Just don't go in with your expectations too high. There are unattractive women everywhere, and if your looking for a secret stash of hotties you may be extremelly disappointed.
 

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Cash37 said:
Just don't go in with your expectations too high. There are unattractive women everywhere, and if your looking for a secret stash of hotties you may be extremelly disappointed.
Good way to put a negative spin on it...

No all the girls I know that dance are insanely hot. As long as there is at least 1 hot girl in the dance group of 15, I'll be happy. I danced with a HB 9 in chapel hill and just moved her around here and there... her being a **** tease on the whole club her eyes lit up with sexual energy. It ended up being an interesting night...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sexual

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That's the whole point of coming across as sexual, but not putting it into words or letting her know she has you any time any place. She has to feel like she's caught in the path of a hunter that has finally chosen a prey, and if she fails to play along and give in to the best experience she's had, you need to quickly move on. Who knows? I've had women persue me after I dropped them out of annoyance.
 

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Oh by the way, yeah it is a good idea to put your ego aside and learn some rhythem. Don't go joining so do you think you can dance, though.

I personally would go do something that benefits you more than wasting your time on just going to meet women or so you can IMPRESS them. I'd much rather hit up yoga classes if I had the time.

The whole idea of trying to form a connection with a woman just because you're in the same class or have the same friends doesn't give me the satisfaction that it does if I went out and got what I wanted when I wanted. The satisfaction of seeing the most beautiful woman that you've ever seen walk by, and then waking up next to her two weeks later is the most amazing feeling ever. If I could have done that from the start, I would have never slept with as many women as I did to get personal peace.
 

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Sexual said:
I personally would go do something that benefits you more than wasting your time on just going to meet women or so you can IMPRESS them. I'd much rather hit up yoga classes if I had the time.
Those are actually good to meet women :p

If you like dancing, dance. If you hate is, don't. The women you pick up doing something you like are probably more of a match.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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