"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Where girls go to get laid

fight4life

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This is a topic orginally brought up by Swinggcat and I can't believe I looked over it in the past! The idea here is really to kill 2 birds with one stone. Find yourself a dance studio.

First of all, the best PUAs know how to dance. Knowing how to dance and move a girl creates instant attraction. This is a good bridge into comfort because in a way she is trusting you by letting you move her around. It's extremely important to use your touch on her most sensitive spots (not there yet.) You want her to anchor you to her physical pleasure.
Secondly, you will be the only guy there. Imagine, all women and you can practice pick up on them. Girls that dance are verrrry kinesthetic. Therefore, you know kino escalation will open a lot of doors for you. Along with that, most of them are great in bed.

This is more about getting laid though, it's about building your lifestyle. Good dance skills come in handy and gaining that part of your personality will create more fun and excitement for YOU, as well as everybody else.

Anybody that has tryed dance studios please post. I'm going to check them out and sign up this week.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I actually signed up for Salsa lessons next week. I used to go ballroom dancing when swing was popular, it's definately a good way to meet women.
 

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Just don't go in with your expectations too high. There are unattractive women everywhere, and if your looking for a secret stash of hotties you may be extremelly disappointed.
 

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Cash37 said:
Just don't go in with your expectations too high. There are unattractive women everywhere, and if your looking for a secret stash of hotties you may be extremelly disappointed.
Good way to put a negative spin on it...

No all the girls I know that dance are insanely hot. As long as there is at least 1 hot girl in the dance group of 15, I'll be happy. I danced with a HB 9 in chapel hill and just moved her around here and there... her being a **** tease on the whole club her eyes lit up with sexual energy. It ended up being an interesting night...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That's the whole point of coming across as sexual, but not putting it into words or letting her know she has you any time any place. She has to feel like she's caught in the path of a hunter that has finally chosen a prey, and if she fails to play along and give in to the best experience she's had, you need to quickly move on. Who knows? I've had women persue me after I dropped them out of annoyance.
 

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Oh by the way, yeah it is a good idea to put your ego aside and learn some rhythem. Don't go joining so do you think you can dance, though.

I personally would go do something that benefits you more than wasting your time on just going to meet women or so you can IMPRESS them. I'd much rather hit up yoga classes if I had the time.

The whole idea of trying to form a connection with a woman just because you're in the same class or have the same friends doesn't give me the satisfaction that it does if I went out and got what I wanted when I wanted. The satisfaction of seeing the most beautiful woman that you've ever seen walk by, and then waking up next to her two weeks later is the most amazing feeling ever. If I could have done that from the start, I would have never slept with as many women as I did to get personal peace.
 

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Sexual said:
I personally would go do something that benefits you more than wasting your time on just going to meet women or so you can IMPRESS them. I'd much rather hit up yoga classes if I had the time.
Those are actually good to meet women :p

If you like dancing, dance. If you hate is, don't. The women you pick up doing something you like are probably more of a match.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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