"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Where does the woman go after a breakup, when she was living with the man?

NealIRC

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The general choices are.

-She moves back in with her parents.
-She opens a new apartment.
-She moves in with other female friends.
-She moves in with her guy friend(s).
-She moves in with a boyfriend-girlfriend couple.
-She continues living with the ex, and are "just friends" or "just roommates..."

Of course, all of the above I'm sure have happened, but what are the most common and does anyone have any specific stories they want to share?

I generally like the idea of women having their own apartment. But what if they don't want to, but still don't want to live with her parents?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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"Where does the woman go after a breakup, when she was living with the man?"

Nowhere, if this broad and the dude are married. She ends up with the house, and he'll be sleeping on the sidewalk
 

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If married, she goes nowhere. It's typically the man who moves out.

If an unmarried cohabiting couple breaks up, it's less clear what happens.

If the man is a homeowner and the woman's name wasn't on the deed, the woman will move out and get her own place. She's typically renting for a period, with or without a roommate.

If the couple was renting, they might time their breakup to the end of the lease and both move on. If the breakup occurs mid-lease, it gets more complicated.

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have seen single moms go back her parents house AND bring the kid along
 

BaronOfHair

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I have seen single moms go back her parents house AND bring the kid along
Lesson here: Avoid impregnating women hailing from South Texas and surnamed Sawyer, lest we enable the creation of an army of Leatherfaces
 
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