"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Where does the woman go after a breakup, when she was living with the man?

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The general choices are.

-She moves back in with her parents.
-She opens a new apartment.
-She moves in with other female friends.
-She moves in with her guy friend(s).
-She moves in with a boyfriend-girlfriend couple.
-She continues living with the ex, and are "just friends" or "just roommates..."

Of course, all of the above I'm sure have happened, but what are the most common and does anyone have any specific stories they want to share?

I generally like the idea of women having their own apartment. But what if they don't want to, but still don't want to live with her parents?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Where does the woman go after a breakup, when she was living with the man?"

Nowhere, if this broad and the dude are married. She ends up with the house, and he'll be sleeping on the sidewalk
 
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If married, she goes nowhere. It's typically the man who moves out.

If an unmarried cohabiting couple breaks up, it's less clear what happens.

If the man is a homeowner and the woman's name wasn't on the deed, the woman will move out and get her own place. She's typically renting for a period, with or without a roommate.

If the couple was renting, they might time their breakup to the end of the lease and both move on. If the breakup occurs mid-lease, it gets more complicated.

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have seen single moms go back her parents house AND bring the kid along
 
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Dr.Suave said:
I have seen single moms go back her parents house AND bring the kid along
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Lesson here: Avoid impregnating women hailing from South Texas and surnamed Sawyer, lest we enable the creation of an army of Leatherfaces
 
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