"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Where does a mature man shop for clothes?
- Thread starter leoncour
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Shop where ever your particular 'style' of clothing is sold. Clothes do not make the man, they only demonstrate who he chooses to represent to the world.GirlCrazy
Master Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
brand tags dont mean anything.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
LuckyStrike
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I am a fan for 7 diamonds and MBX
You can get some on EBAY or you will have to look for them
Nordstroms carries them but they carry the lame ass stuff.
I can walk in anywhere in a cool shirt and jeans and get attention.
good POSTURE and moving at a slow comfortable pace are key.
So Many Ways
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
DonRob
Don Juan
If you live in NYC and you hang in Mahatten what you wear is going to be radically different than if you live So. Cal and you hang at the beach.
In Columbus, I shop at Kauffmans. There is one right in the Mall I walk through every day when Im coming from my office to where I park. I buy when stuff is on sale and I can usually get really decent deals.
For example they are having 50% off sale starting Monday.... Hagger chino style slacks for $25 bucks... they normally sell for 52. If you find a store that has sales like that you can get some really nice clothes but you have to go in frequently. Dont buy unless its on sale.
Ive purchased Tommy stuff cheap, Polo, Nautica ect...
Clothes is but just one tool in the bag, you cant ignore them ESPECIALLY if you are older. You're not going to get the eye of the successful 35+ if you dress out of Kmart. Unless she is just looking for a roll in the hay.
Birds of a feather flock together.
salthepal
Don Juan
One time I bought Calvin Klein dress pants for $29 each. Another time I bought great Gap pants for $21 each and a nice sweater for $10 !
Also search on the internet for men's style. You can get a good idea about the current trends on the websites of the designers. look for the websites of Gap, Hilfiger, Calvin Klein, etc.
Also check out www.askmen.com. It's a great site by all means, but the relevant part is the fashion section. It has lots of tips on dressing for all occasions and the latest trend information.
About.com also has a nice fashion section. Check it out.
One good place is Ross. My natural (17-63lays)friend introduced me to it.
Ross has designer shirtsc for 8-10 bucks . It's all designer stuff that didn't sell and would sell for 6-10 times the amount in regular stores. You do have to go frequently cause the good stuff gets picked through.
Another good place is Internationalmale.com. Lots of really unique stuff which would cost 600-900 bucks. It's amazingly inexpensive.
It's very difficult to get really unique clothing for men. Unless you're spending big bucks. International male is the only place available.