“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Where does a mature man shop for clothes?

leoncour

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Where does a mature man shop for clothes? Like if he's in his mid to late twenties. Thanks for any input.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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:rolleyes: Shop where ever your particular 'style' of clothing is sold. Clothes do not make the man, they only demonstrate who he chooses to represent to the world.
 

MoonieTX

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I am 32 and shop at Old Navy. Also when Express has their sales you can pick up some really cool stuff for cheap.
 

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For me it's Old Navy for casual, and Men's Warehouse for dress clothes.
 

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wear whatever looks good on you, and that you feel comfortable in.
brand tags dont mean anything.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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penkitten is right on! Brand tags don't mean sh-t. I've shopped for clothes just about everywhere, from Walmart to Nordstroms. Wear what you like...but don't be afraid to mix it up a little bit either.
 

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At a special mature shop.
 

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I am a fan for 7 diamonds and MBX

You can get some on EBAY or you will have to look for them

Nordstroms carries them but they carry the lame ass stuff.

I can walk in anywhere in a cool shirt and jeans and get attention.

good POSTURE and moving at a slow comfortable pace are key.
 

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I just turned 40 and am sleeping with 21 to 27 yo's all 8.5 to 10 HBs
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonRob

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Man..... that depends on a lot of things....

If you live in NYC and you hang in Mahatten what you wear is going to be radically different than if you live So. Cal and you hang at the beach.

In Columbus, I shop at Kauffmans. There is one right in the Mall I walk through every day when Im coming from my office to where I park. I buy when stuff is on sale and I can usually get really decent deals.

For example they are having 50% off sale starting Monday.... Hagger chino style slacks for $25 bucks... they normally sell for 52. If you find a store that has sales like that you can get some really nice clothes but you have to go in frequently. Dont buy unless its on sale.

Ive purchased Tommy stuff cheap, Polo, Nautica ect...

Clothes is but just one tool in the bag, you cant ignore them ESPECIALLY if you are older. You're not going to get the eye of the successful 35+ if you dress out of Kmart. Unless she is just looking for a roll in the hay.

Birds of a feather flock together.
 

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You must try factory stores. I love to shop at the Jackson Outlet Village (that's in Monmouth Cty. in NJ). You have all the great designer clothes for a fraction of the price you would pay at other stores. You might not always find the stuff that you have in mind, but since there's always some kind of clearance, you're bound to get a bargain somewhere.

One time I bought Calvin Klein dress pants for $29 each. Another time I bought great Gap pants for $21 each and a nice sweater for $10 !

Also search on the internet for men's style. You can get a good idea about the current trends on the websites of the designers. look for the websites of Gap, Hilfiger, Calvin Klein, etc.

Also check out www.askmen.com. It's a great site by all means, but the relevant part is the fashion section. It has lots of tips on dressing for all occasions and the latest trend information.

About.com also has a nice fashion section. Check it out.
 

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mature man

One good place is Ross. My natural (17-63lays)friend introduced me to it.

Ross has designer shirtsc for 8-10 bucks . It's all designer stuff that didn't sell and would sell for 6-10 times the amount in regular stores. You do have to go frequently cause the good stuff gets picked through.

Another good place is Internationalmale.com. Lots of really unique stuff which would cost 600-900 bucks. It's amazingly inexpensive.

It's very difficult to get really unique clothing for men. Unless you're spending big bucks. International male is the only place available.
 
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