“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Oxide

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Summer is coming, college bills are coming even faster..

As i sit here, back from first job and 15 minutes till the next one, i wonder... where do people on this board work?

I work at Chipotles in the mornings, and deliver Dominos in the evenings. I like the pay, and it hasnt been too bad yet (first week :))

So.. where do you work and how do you like it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm a corporate finance attorney (IPOs, mergers and acquistions, venture capital) in a large firm. I think it's great in some ways, and it sucks in others since there are so many dumb-sses in this line of work.
 

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I'll be starting work as a doorman in July (I'm also a full time university student).
 

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This is going to sound far fetched and made-up, but since you asked...

Full time college student who is going to take a year out of college to dig up dinosuar fossils (t-rex, triceratops, edmontosaurus) in wyoming for a few months, then [if I accept the job offer] will work a year in the Czech Republic for the experience, plus looks nice on resume. Also, I'll be learning my 5th language.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm a DJ. No, seriously, I play records for a living! So it's virtually impossible to NOT meet women in my line of work. It's great!
 

true|hockey

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work in a design lab on my masters thesis. Not that it is really relavent, but I do not meet many women in my line of work. I do have flexable enough hours so that I can have a life, while getting decent pay, so it kind of works out in the end.
 

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I work in the Maintenance Department @ The Holiday Inn Central (Holidome) in Lafayette, LA. I also do some side work for people who needs some Painting done.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I do CAD (computer assisted drafting) using Solidworks & autocad. Mechanical detail & assembly drawings. Doesnt pay alot & right now i am out of work..3rd layoff in 15 years.....sux...I want to start my own business. I am tired of working for companies...layoffs, 2% raises, cruel bosses & cheap penny pinching companies.
 

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Student > Airtraffic controller @ schiphol airport (amsterdam) & bartender (apeldoorn)

first one is my first year, just started this year.. and it's going great, the latter one I started just 2 months ago.. before that I've worked as a waiter, office cleaner, every fricking job I could get my hands on :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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leoncour

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Originally posted by rgeere
This is going to sound far fetched and made-up, but since you asked...

Full time college student who is going to take a year out of college to dig up dinosuar fossils (t-rex, triceratops, edmontosaurus) in wyoming for a few months, then [if I accept the job offer] will work a year in the Czech Republic for the experience, plus looks nice on resume. Also, I'll be learning my 5th language.
Hey rgeere,
What languages do you know, and how did you learn them?
 

rgeere

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Originally posted by leoncour
Hey rgeere,
What languages do you know, and how did you learn them?
English was my first language

German was my second fluent language. I have almost reached fluent speaker status, began learning when I was 14 in school and have sought to perfect it ever since.

Greek I learned in college
Hebrew I learned in college

I also know some Spanish, French, Dutch, Russian,Ukrainian, and Gaelic, though not much more than the basics.

If you are an american I would advise learning another fluent language. Believe it or not chicks tend to find it quite intrigueing, especially if they are non-american. It helps to make you look very well rounded.
 

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i have the ****iest job out of all of you all. I work in Ingles Video. It's a good job to have as a highschooler though
 

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Originally posted by rgeere
A programmer for Bill Gates or for Windows enviroment specifically?
Nope, not for Bill Gates. :) I work for a post secondary educational institute.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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