"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Where do you work out?

Fuglydude

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Just would like to get an idea of where most of the guys in here train, and what physical activity/sports they're involved with in addition to working out...

for me:

- work out at a few gyms (a couple of commercial gyms and the University gym). I'm a part-time personal trainer and also have a gym membership to another gym and also go to school fulltime...so I have the luxury of having access to many different facilities.
- Do stairs once in a while at the park.
- Train in the "dungeon" at the university (has mostly powerlifting and olympic lifting gear).

How about you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Triple T

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My local Gym.

Anybody know of those "ghetto builders"?
They are those guys who can't afford a gym membership but instead just traing at parks and these guys are BUILT!

I remember seeing it somewhere.
 

BMX

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Weightroom I set up in my basement. Soon I'll be working out at the college gym. Also proud to say that in a few days I'll be putting the finishing touches on an MMA facility.

I road cycle most streets in my town.
Sometimes I'll do Rosstraining's never gymless workouts inside or in the yard.
 

Maxtro

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My Jr. College gym. Place is kind of small but it works. The price is great. It's regularly $20 which is the cost of one unit and it's good for the semester which is about 4 months. But since I get financial aid it's free!

I'm going to sign up for summer school and my only class will be the weight room :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Flyer

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Where?
Commercial Gym mostly. (Fitness First)
Occasionally, I run in the suburbs and use the playground equipment at the park.

Sport?
Nothing real these days. Weightlifting is a sport I guess.
 

mikeyb

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On the road/on a track, free weights at home, pool at gym.


Sport
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Triathlon
 

wolf116

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At an underground powerlifting dungeon (lol) and in my garage.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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