"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Where do you work out?

Fuglydude

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Just would like to get an idea of where most of the guys in here train, and what physical activity/sports they're involved with in addition to working out...

for me:

- work out at a few gyms (a couple of commercial gyms and the University gym). I'm a part-time personal trainer and also have a gym membership to another gym and also go to school fulltime...so I have the luxury of having access to many different facilities.
- Do stairs once in a while at the park.
- Train in the "dungeon" at the university (has mostly powerlifting and olympic lifting gear).

How about you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Triple T

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My local Gym.

Anybody know of those "ghetto builders"?
They are those guys who can't afford a gym membership but instead just traing at parks and these guys are BUILT!

I remember seeing it somewhere.
 

BMX

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Weightroom I set up in my basement. Soon I'll be working out at the college gym. Also proud to say that in a few days I'll be putting the finishing touches on an MMA facility.

I road cycle most streets in my town.
Sometimes I'll do Rosstraining's never gymless workouts inside or in the yard.
 

Maxtro

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My Jr. College gym. Place is kind of small but it works. The price is great. It's regularly $20 which is the cost of one unit and it's good for the semester which is about 4 months. But since I get financial aid it's free!

I'm going to sign up for summer school and my only class will be the weight room :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Flyer

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Where?
Commercial Gym mostly. (Fitness First)
Occasionally, I run in the suburbs and use the playground equipment at the park.

Sport?
Nothing real these days. Weightlifting is a sport I guess.
 

mikeyb

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On the road/on a track, free weights at home, pool at gym.


Sport
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Triathlon
 

wolf116

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At an underground powerlifting dungeon (lol) and in my garage.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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