"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Where do you rate on the DJ scale?

Your DJ rating?

  • 1 - I can't even maintain EC with a GOI

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • 2 - I can't even smile or say hi to a GOI

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • 3 - I can start small talk, but never go anywhere

    Votes: 3 11.1%

  • 4 - I can make a fun convo, but no # close

    Votes: 5 18.5%

  • 5 - I can # close more often than not

    Votes: 1 3.7%

  • 6 - I go on dates, but rarely leads to anything

    Votes: 3 11.1%

  • 7 - I date often with moderate success

    Votes: 7 25.9%

  • 8 - I date often, f-close on occassion, and have the ability to handle 3+ girls

    Votes: 6 22.2%

  • 9 - I can PU a girl at a PU spot and f-close that night

    Votes: 2 7.4%

  • 10 - I can PU a girl at CVS while I'm buying Lamisil AT and f-close that afternoon!

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
    27
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Infinity

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Seems like there's a lot more theoretical DJs than field DJs on here so that's why I'm doing this scale. No offense to anyone because I'm still a theoretical DJ right now, but I do at least try a little bit. The scale isn't perfect and none could be, but I want to get a feel for the population on here. Go ahead and reply as to why you ranked what you did.

House rule: If you are a 6, but not a 5, you aren't a 6, you're a 4! You have to be able to suavely perform each task below the rating you choose as well as that rating itself.

GOI = Girl of Interest We all have our own scales and it's obviously tougher to do some of these tasks with a 10, but we're talking about girls you are attracted to, in general.

BTW, I'm a measly 4.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MVPlaya

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What is a GOI, and what is the CVS?
 
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Mr_Pink

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Well, by your scale I'm a 6. And I'm seeing that's where most people are falling...

-Mr. Pink

EDIT: Actually there's only been two people that have voted. Him and me...
 
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Originally posted by MVPlaya
What is a GOI, and what is the CVS?
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I edited my first post to explain GOI. CVS is a drug store like People's Drug or whatever you might have. It's a joke!

I didn't know it was possible to make a DJ scale...
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But I will try!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jakethasnake

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Wow, what a fun poll!

To be honest, I guess I'm a 6, in the process of transitioning into a 7. I think that to become a 7, your life needs to be well-rounded - you need to have a good, strong pack of friends, get along well with most people, have a good job/some money, are passionate, and have a future ahead of you. The ratings above 7 are dependent largely on looks and status, but to a degree on your personality and how much of a tight game you talk/act (what this site tries to capture and 'bottle', but is failing to do so).


I've scored on various occasions, but I accredit that to luck more than anything else - I said the right thing at the right time by chance, did the right thing, etc. :p


Oh by the way, I think your scale is a little faulty. If I went for fatties or ugs, I could be a 10 all the way. You've got to take the quality of the women into consideration (looks, personality, intelligence, status, ambition, dreams, etc.) -- perhaps you should modify your scale somehow.
 
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khanboy

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Haha, dude, there are some guys who just don't # close (gasp!). I know, I know, crazy, but there are such men.

What is with you guys and #'s? lol.

It's almost as if you believe # = free sex or some stupid sh*t, haha.

So I guess I'm between 3 and 6 by your standards, since I date, don't have fun convos, only relaxed convos, and only # closed once, by mistake.

A challenge to all phone wh*res. Pretend, for one day (or week if you have the balls) that you have NO PHONE. Never answer it, never call anyone. Figure out how to remain social (and get laid) in such a situation. Have fun. =)

With a smile remembering all my insta-dates,
khanboy
 
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Blurred Elevens

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There's a couple of problems with your poll.

One is that I personally can mack on any girl with confidence, but I just have way too much debt and other things in my life going on to be able to "date" frequently.

Also, there are certain quality girls out there that you're not going to lay the first night even if you are Don Juan himself.

May I lastly say, my character isn't going to allow me to play girls if I'm with just one quality girl who is a woman and not a ho.

My rating? I don't know. I've got game to kick it with any girl. I've got what I wanted 90% of the time in my life. It's not about getting the lay that concerns me as much nowdays, that's now just a bonding process to achieve what should be the Ultimate Goal, and that is to get her heart into you.

Once you have it, it takes a real DJ to take care of that responsibility with maturity, and not hurting her. If you can do that, than your the Man in my book. So according to my rules, I suppose I'm a 10.
 
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Walden

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I'm a ten , you're just a ƒuckin zero hook!

Sorry ,was channeling B-Real from cypress hill there. I'm a 7 playing as an 8.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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