"Where Do You Live?"

[thickandcreamy]

I was chatting with a girl last week. She's a cutie I'd been working up the nerve to talk to for a while now. She's giving me some ioi's like playing with her hair, laughing at my jokes, and giving me the "bedroom eyes" look while I'm talking to her.

We're walking together and out of the blue she ask me: "where do you live?" We've only been talking for about five minutes so I'm kind of surprised since this to me is a rather personal question.

I just say 'uuuuh, I live on street x.'
She senses my nervousness, and says 'well, it was nice talking to you.' She walks off quickly, and ends our conversation.

Later on, I was thinking through this conversation. Was she trying to hint to me that she wanted to come over to my place? In other words, inviting me to invite her? I saw her again a couple days ago and she seemed nervous or disinterested in talking to me.

Help me figure this situation out!

T 'n C

 

[aftershock]

This is the funniest thing I've read in a while.

Read and re-read what you've written.

(No, she wanted you to fvck off)

 

[thickandcreamy]

Does anyone have any legitimate feedback, lol. Unlike aftershock that is, who has clearly never even been with a girl.

T 'n C

PS: Why are you so upset that you have to swear? You have some self esteem issues, bro.

This is the funniest thing I've read in a while.

Read and re-read what you've written.

(No, she wanted you to fvck off)

 

[The Juan and only]

You've got to be joking. Let me quote you from another thread:

The main problem with this board is that the vast majority of people posting are sexually inexperienced boys. I learned more in two weeks of approaches than in two months of reading posts here.

Funny thing is, I NEVER see field reports on this board. Even from people who have posted hundreds or even thousands of times!

I detect possible hypocrisy.

What you just wrote is ridiculous man. I mean I've seen over-analysis in my time but that takes the cake. Tbh, she was probably just making conversation, but you can't know for certain so there's not much point in thinking about it.

Also, wtf would it make you nervous if someone asks where you live? jesus christ.

 

[organizedconfusion]

the answer is...who the fvck cares!
dude, with all those IOIs you've been getting i would've been all over her already..do you need a written invitation?! LOL!
what a waste of an oppritunity
*tsk
*tsk
the difference between guys that get laid and guys that don't?
the guys that do- do..the guys that don't? hesitate and replay different scanarios of what they 'should've done' in their head and try to read into every little thing that the girl does as either a rejection or a 'signal'...
the next time you get signals,grab her,touch her,smell her hair,kiss her...
whatever...be a man for godsake :rockon:

 

[aftershock]

Legitimate Feedback

Well now I've finished masturbating over when I'll have my first kiss, and nearly bled to death from cutting myself from the arm that I haven't had to have amputated due to excessively wiping the tears I've cried in my sad, despressed life, lets reply.

I was chatting with a girl last week. She's a cutie I'd been working up the nerve to talk to for a while now.

Her: "Oh no, its the guy who keeps staring at me nervously"

She's giving me some ioi's like playing with her hair, laughing at my jokes, and giving me the "bedroom eyes" look while I'm talking to her.

Going well.

We're walking together and out of the blue she ask me: "where do you live?" We've only been talking for about five minutes so I'm kind of surprised since this to me is a rather personal question.

Maybe she was looking for an excuse to get rid of you.

I just say 'uuuuh, I live on street x.'
She senses my nervousness, and says 'well, it was nice talking to you.' She walks off quickly, and ends our conversation.

Yep, she was.

Later on, I was thinking through this conversation. Was she trying to hint to me that she wanted to come over to my place?

Up to now, it was standard newbie questions. Now it's just funny. THINK about what you posted. Again and again, until you realise how ridiculous this sounds.

In other words, inviting me to invite her? I saw her again a couple days ago and she seemed nervous or disinterested in talking to me.

She thinks you are weird.

Help me figure this situation out!

T 'n C

- You had oneitis
- You did something about it
- She rejected you

Answer: Find some pvssy. Unlike me, I'm just going to beat the bishop for the rest of my life, obviously. Anyone care to send me some lesbian porn?

 

[Ace_McGregor]

I love your posts TnC! Keep em' up good stuff.

You could have used some CF when she asked where you lived.

Her:"So where do you live?"
You:"I'd live at ......., but you're not going to start stalking me now are you? Where do you live?"

That would have atleast progressed the conversation along. I think the conversation got akward and she bailed.