"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tired of this question, and i know ppl must have asked this before... btu seriously: where do you guys meet the good girls?


i have no problem getting pvssy but lately i think my string of failed ltrs come from meeting girls in the all the wrong places. i generally meet girls through mutual friends. i have a good group of guys/girls that i party with and we generally introduce people to eachother by inviting them to party with us.

the problem is: all the girls i meet are sort of wild. this leads to a great start, we party we date we get semi-serious and then it plateaus because she's still chasing the next great party and as much as i like to party, i cant just take time off work to fly to europe because i still put my career first (semi venting lol).


anyways, where are the good girls at? for those in LTRs: whered you meet your significant other? and please dont say school because ive been out of school for awhile now :/
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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garruk said:
tired of this question, and i know ppl must have asked this before... btu seriously: where do you guys meet the good girls?


i have no problem getting pvssy but lately i think my string of failed ltrs come from meeting girls in the all the wrong places. i generally meet girls through mutual friends. i have a good group of guys/girls that i party with and we generally introduce people to eachother by inviting them to party with us.

the problem is: all the girls i meet are sort of wild. this leads to a great start, we party we date we get semi-serious and then it plateaus because she's still chasing the next great party and as much as i like to party, i cant just take time off work to fly to europe because i still put my career first (semi venting lol).


anyways, where are the good girls at? for those in LTRs: whered you meet your significant other? and please dont say school because ive been out of school for awhile now :/
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If you're in America that is the problem. USA is a weak joke of a country for women. Nothing more than a place for feminized wannabe PUA beta men and feminist.
 
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YAboi said:
I think u should read the book models by mark Manson . It's best to meet girls where ur hobbies are practiced that way u meet ur ideal type of chicks.
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hmm thats a great point.
 
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garruk, I feel like I could have written your original post. I'm completely with you... unfortunately.

Nearly all of the girls I have met recently are through mutual friends. I got 3 fvck buddies and a short "exclusive" relationship out of that since about August. But there is no potential for future with those. The only one that I feel could be great g/f material is really not up to my physical standards. And I feel that is important.

I wish there was an answer here, but I'm afraid there isn't much that can be considered as a general rule. The hobbies idea is probably as close as you can come to that.

I feel my best shot at finding a higher quality girl is focusing more on day game approaches, rather than the bar scene or friends' parties.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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On the street, in grocery stores, libraries, the subway. Typically anywhere but clubs.
 
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garruk said:
tired of this question, and i know ppl must have asked this before... btu seriously: where do you guys meet the good girls?


i have no problem getting pvssy but lately i think my string of failed ltrs come from meeting girls in the all the wrong places. i generally meet girls through mutual friends. i have a good group of guys/girls that i party with and we generally introduce people to eachother by inviting them to party with us.

the problem is: all the girls i meet are sort of wild. this leads to a great start, we party we date we get semi-serious and then it plateaus because she's still chasing the next great party and as much as i like to party, i cant just take time off work to fly to europe because i still put my career first (semi venting lol).


anyways, where are the good girls at? for those in LTRs: whered you meet your significant other? and please dont say school because ive been out of school for awhile now :/
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Usually they'll already be on me ****, once I introduce myself
 
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