"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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where do you guys meet girls?

garruk

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tired of this question, and i know ppl must have asked this before... btu seriously: where do you guys meet the good girls?


i have no problem getting pvssy but lately i think my string of failed ltrs come from meeting girls in the all the wrong places. i generally meet girls through mutual friends. i have a good group of guys/girls that i party with and we generally introduce people to eachother by inviting them to party with us.

the problem is: all the girls i meet are sort of wild. this leads to a great start, we party we date we get semi-serious and then it plateaus because she's still chasing the next great party and as much as i like to party, i cant just take time off work to fly to europe because i still put my career first (semi venting lol).


anyways, where are the good girls at? for those in LTRs: whered you meet your significant other? and please dont say school because ive been out of school for awhile now :/
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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garruk said:
tired of this question, and i know ppl must have asked this before... btu seriously: where do you guys meet the good girls?


i have no problem getting pvssy but lately i think my string of failed ltrs come from meeting girls in the all the wrong places. i generally meet girls through mutual friends. i have a good group of guys/girls that i party with and we generally introduce people to eachother by inviting them to party with us.

the problem is: all the girls i meet are sort of wild. this leads to a great start, we party we date we get semi-serious and then it plateaus because she's still chasing the next great party and as much as i like to party, i cant just take time off work to fly to europe because i still put my career first (semi venting lol).


anyways, where are the good girls at? for those in LTRs: whered you meet your significant other? and please dont say school because ive been out of school for awhile now :/
If you're in America that is the problem. USA is a weak joke of a country for women. Nothing more than a place for feminized wannabe PUA beta men and feminist.
 

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YAboi said:
I think u should read the book models by mark Manson . It's best to meet girls where ur hobbies are practiced that way u meet ur ideal type of chicks.
hmm thats a great point.
 

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garruk, I feel like I could have written your original post. I'm completely with you... unfortunately.

Nearly all of the girls I have met recently are through mutual friends. I got 3 fvck buddies and a short "exclusive" relationship out of that since about August. But there is no potential for future with those. The only one that I feel could be great g/f material is really not up to my physical standards. And I feel that is important.

I wish there was an answer here, but I'm afraid there isn't much that can be considered as a general rule. The hobbies idea is probably as close as you can come to that.

I feel my best shot at finding a higher quality girl is focusing more on day game approaches, rather than the bar scene or friends' parties.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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On the street, in grocery stores, libraries, the subway. Typically anywhere but clubs.
 

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garruk said:
tired of this question, and i know ppl must have asked this before... btu seriously: where do you guys meet the good girls?


i have no problem getting pvssy but lately i think my string of failed ltrs come from meeting girls in the all the wrong places. i generally meet girls through mutual friends. i have a good group of guys/girls that i party with and we generally introduce people to eachother by inviting them to party with us.

the problem is: all the girls i meet are sort of wild. this leads to a great start, we party we date we get semi-serious and then it plateaus because she's still chasing the next great party and as much as i like to party, i cant just take time off work to fly to europe because i still put my career first (semi venting lol).


anyways, where are the good girls at? for those in LTRs: whered you meet your significant other? and please dont say school because ive been out of school for awhile now :/
Usually they'll already be on me ****, once I introduce myself
 
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