"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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where do you guys meet girls?

garruk

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tired of this question, and i know ppl must have asked this before... btu seriously: where do you guys meet the good girls?


i have no problem getting pvssy but lately i think my string of failed ltrs come from meeting girls in the all the wrong places. i generally meet girls through mutual friends. i have a good group of guys/girls that i party with and we generally introduce people to eachother by inviting them to party with us.

the problem is: all the girls i meet are sort of wild. this leads to a great start, we party we date we get semi-serious and then it plateaus because she's still chasing the next great party and as much as i like to party, i cant just take time off work to fly to europe because i still put my career first (semi venting lol).


anyways, where are the good girls at? for those in LTRs: whered you meet your significant other? and please dont say school because ive been out of school for awhile now :/
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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garruk said:
tired of this question, and i know ppl must have asked this before... btu seriously: where do you guys meet the good girls?


i have no problem getting pvssy but lately i think my string of failed ltrs come from meeting girls in the all the wrong places. i generally meet girls through mutual friends. i have a good group of guys/girls that i party with and we generally introduce people to eachother by inviting them to party with us.

the problem is: all the girls i meet are sort of wild. this leads to a great start, we party we date we get semi-serious and then it plateaus because she's still chasing the next great party and as much as i like to party, i cant just take time off work to fly to europe because i still put my career first (semi venting lol).


anyways, where are the good girls at? for those in LTRs: whered you meet your significant other? and please dont say school because ive been out of school for awhile now :/
If you're in America that is the problem. USA is a weak joke of a country for women. Nothing more than a place for feminized wannabe PUA beta men and feminist.
 

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YAboi said:
I think u should read the book models by mark Manson . It's best to meet girls where ur hobbies are practiced that way u meet ur ideal type of chicks.
hmm thats a great point.
 

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garruk, I feel like I could have written your original post. I'm completely with you... unfortunately.

Nearly all of the girls I have met recently are through mutual friends. I got 3 fvck buddies and a short "exclusive" relationship out of that since about August. But there is no potential for future with those. The only one that I feel could be great g/f material is really not up to my physical standards. And I feel that is important.

I wish there was an answer here, but I'm afraid there isn't much that can be considered as a general rule. The hobbies idea is probably as close as you can come to that.

I feel my best shot at finding a higher quality girl is focusing more on day game approaches, rather than the bar scene or friends' parties.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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On the street, in grocery stores, libraries, the subway. Typically anywhere but clubs.
 

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garruk said:
tired of this question, and i know ppl must have asked this before... btu seriously: where do you guys meet the good girls?


i have no problem getting pvssy but lately i think my string of failed ltrs come from meeting girls in the all the wrong places. i generally meet girls through mutual friends. i have a good group of guys/girls that i party with and we generally introduce people to eachother by inviting them to party with us.

the problem is: all the girls i meet are sort of wild. this leads to a great start, we party we date we get semi-serious and then it plateaus because she's still chasing the next great party and as much as i like to party, i cant just take time off work to fly to europe because i still put my career first (semi venting lol).


anyways, where are the good girls at? for those in LTRs: whered you meet your significant other? and please dont say school because ive been out of school for awhile now :/
Usually they'll already be on me ****, once I introduce myself
 
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