SmoothOperator
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I don't really know many girls from any other schools, and I'm looking for a few fresh faces, and ideas? Thanks.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Where do you guys meet girls from other schools?
- Thread starter SmoothOperator
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
go to events in the town where there is a school you want to meet people from
you will meet people by the boatload
and if you got skills, you could stand to meet more people at parties, other events etc.
you will meet people by the boatload
and if you got skills, you could stand to meet more people at parties, other events etc.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
Oh... Im the only guy with balls enough to cold approach in the mall?
box
Don Juan
Downtown Birmingham. Or through other people.
mike_0678
Don Juan
get a girl that wets her pants over you from that school so she talks to all her friends about you and then you become this big mystery guy that they all wanna meet
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Serg897
Master Don Juan
Sports matches!
I met lots of girls from different schools during the summer training program where people from different schools all went.
I met lots of girls from different schools during the summer training program where people from different schools all went.