SmoothOperator
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I don't really know many girls from any other schools, and I'm looking for a few fresh faces, and ideas? Thanks.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Where do you guys meet girls from other schools?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
go to events in the town where there is a school you want to meet people from
you will meet people by the boatload
and if you got skills, you could stand to meet more people at parties, other events etc.
you will meet people by the boatload
and if you got skills, you could stand to meet more people at parties, other events etc.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
Oh... Im the only guy with balls enough to cold approach in the mall?
box
Don Juan
Downtown Birmingham. Or through other people.
mike_0678
Don Juan
get a girl that wets her pants over you from that school so she talks to all her friends about you and then you become this big mystery guy that they all wanna meet
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Serg897
Master Don Juan
Sports matches!
I met lots of girls from different schools during the summer training program where people from different schools all went.
I met lots of girls from different schools during the summer training program where people from different schools all went.