"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where do you guys go to buy your clothes?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dasein

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Check out Rugged Wearhouse. I bought $10,000 worth of casual/sportswear clothes there for about $500 between 2006-2010. There are probably other chains like this in other areas.

Tips: most of the clothes that end up in places like this are mislabeled as to size, especially shoes, get good at eyeballing your size and trying stuff on.

Never, ever pay retail for casual clothes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

mangotot

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jimmy18 said:
I bought tonnes of clothes from this place in the last 6 months. I stopped buying here now because I have enough clothes from ''one designer'' - you have to mix and match clothes from different places to give it a unique look. You don't want to become a mannequin for one store/designer.

Also with Zara the clothes are quite cheap which means the material and the way its been put together (say stitching) is poor to average. But the cut is copied directly from major designers and looks good.

These days I shop at mid range retailers like All Saints, Hugo Boss, and Calvin Klein. I'd prefer to buy clothes from the likes of balenciaga, Gucci and Alrxandra McQueen but its beyond my budget at the moment.
 
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