"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dasein

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Check out Rugged Wearhouse. I bought $10,000 worth of casual/sportswear clothes there for about $500 between 2006-2010. There are probably other chains like this in other areas.

Tips: most of the clothes that end up in places like this are mislabeled as to size, especially shoes, get good at eyeballing your size and trying stuff on.

Never, ever pay retail for casual clothes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jimmy18 said:
I bought tonnes of clothes from this place in the last 6 months. I stopped buying here now because I have enough clothes from ''one designer'' - you have to mix and match clothes from different places to give it a unique look. You don't want to become a mannequin for one store/designer.

Also with Zara the clothes are quite cheap which means the material and the way its been put together (say stitching) is poor to average. But the cut is copied directly from major designers and looks good.

These days I shop at mid range retailers like All Saints, Hugo Boss, and Calvin Klein. I'd prefer to buy clothes from the likes of balenciaga, Gucci and Alrxandra McQueen but its beyond my budget at the moment.
 
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