Mike32ct said:
So some tall good looking guy who gets laid a lot is going to teach you to get laid more
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It doesn't work that way. You can't teach good looking.
I'm not trying to be rude or sarcastic but it's true. Trying to copy another guy rarely works.
Even here, we can provide guidance and help guys avoid common mistakes, but that's about it. You still have to find your own game that fits you and works for you.
This. Lots of this. When I was young, fat, unattractive, etc, I couldnt get ****, and was always surrounded by gorgeous women. Why? Because all of my friends were pretty boys. They got all of the women. I had no experience, no knowledge, no game, no self esteem, no social skills, no life, no nothing. I was about18 at the time, just moved out of my mom's house.
Flash forward a few years, and everything started changing. Nobody helped me, and they really couldnt. I just started exercising, losing weight, socializing, getting involved in activities, buying nice clothes, taking care of my appearance - and there it was. Friends were made, women were wanting sex, respect was given, etc. And it just became natural from there. Nobody taught me ****, and I dont know if it can be taught. Its just something that happens as a result of these things you do. You cant make a woman attracted by watching someone else - you have to become someone else through your own. If that makes sense. The better, more evolved you. You have to attract women, and have these experiences. To that end, you also have to be a leader, posses good social skills, etc.
One thing that blew me, and the girls I knew from before, away was, there was a pretty boy underneath that young, nerdy, messy, unhygeinetic (yeah, thats probably not a word), unattractive fatass all along. Never in a million years did I ever think I'd have what those friends of old did. ****, I still viewed myself as that unattractive person for years to come. You might be suprised by how good looking and sociable and interesting you are once you eliminate the shyness, fear, and take care of yourself. Then you will get women, and know what its all about.
It has to be natural; they have to like you. Once that happens, you also realize its not a big deal - just another walk of life. And that a lot of the crazy ranting that goes on here holds no bearing on reality. I think most of that comes from failure and rejection, which leads to bitterness and generalizing. If they were successful, attractive, had LIVES, and were in the zone, so to speak - they wouldnt be crying and calling women negative things all the time. But of course, some ARE *****es and *****s. Not nearly as bad as they make them out to be, though. A lot of times, theyre simply not that interested.
But then you also have the nature of the site, and most of its ilk. For meeting and attracting women. So youre probably going to end up with more failures and learners than non.
