"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where do I stand?

navyseal2101

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So with a recent girl I have been "gaming", although not really, a lot of weird things have happened and I'm surprised I've gotten as far as I have. I figure I'm either close to blowing it or have already lol, not sure yet but basically for some reason I've done like a ton of stuff wrong. So I want you guys to tell me where you think I stand as of now, because I don't want to waste any more time if it's blown.

Got her number. She was really nervous during it and gave almost every IOI imaginable.

Invited her to a mountain house. She was like "Oh yea I defiantly want to go that sounds like sooo much fun." Lots of smiling and eye contact and she was nervous.

She tells 2 of my friends she thinks I'm cute.

I don't call to tell her were not going to the mountains.

Don't see her for 1-2 weeks.

Call her and ask her out. Im nervous because I haven't seen her so long. She says ok though, and I pick her up.

Date from http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1541616&posted=1#post1541616 occurs.

See her 2 days after and she's obviously going somewhere but I stop her and say we should hang out again. She's not really paying attention, not many IOI's, but she was obviously in a rush.

Don't see her for 2 days.

Im in hallway taking to friends and my back is to her as she's coming up the hallway. I see my friend (girl) mouthing "do it". I turn my head to see her right beside me. She says hi and waves but I only see it at the last second. I say "hey" but she kind of just smiles and walks away. My one friend goes "That was soooooo awwwwkkkwwwaarrdd" She then tell me the girl was watching me the whole way up the hallway and was hesitant to say hi, so thats why she mouthed it.

Called her but she wasn't home or didn't answer, probably out though as I called kind of late for a Friday.

I just feel like that last thing would make her think were to awkward, but I'm beginning to think she's a bit awkward to around me, so maybe she's just nervous, thats what my friend said. She also said that the girl isnt going to keep putting up with it, so hat made me feel like it was my fault and to be honest, I'm kind of nervous now.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm in the Mood

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Honesty and having fun is the best way to avoid awkwardness.

What's your goal with this girl though?
 

S.Y.L

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Things are only awkward if you make them awkward
 

CaptainJ

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Are you sure you're not mistaking awkwardness for sexual tension? Because girls love that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Um, not really sure with her. I know at one point she really wanted to hook up with me, but idk anymore. Sexual tension though, that would make sense just because of smiling and such, I can't believe it hasn't crossed my mind by now. The last time was kind of awkward though, like even I felt awkward.
 

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This girl has given you every sign you needed to show she's very interested in you. She even said, point blank.... SHE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU!!! Stop trying to wife her up as a GF and give her some lovin' bro! It's very likely she's a freak, which means she wants sex. No games, she's not leading you on, she's trying to cut the bull and get some ****. Don't get emotionally attached to her, don't hit it and quit it either, that's stupid.
Wear a condom, give her good sex, and let her fall for you. Don't get attached to her, and don't see her more than 2x a week. Where are your other girls at? Go see them a while so you don't get all caught up on this one.
 

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Alright so I'm guessing most of you guys are thinking that last incident didn't blow it. I have completely like stopped seeing any other girls for the past week for some reason. James18, what you said was basically what my plan would be assuming you guys felt like there was still attraction, and now I definitely feel like there is.
 
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